Pizza Break

"Oh, I am only going to the gym 3 times this week, I am trying to find a healthier balance." "I didn't eat much yesterday, so this second plate is actually from what I would have eaten then." "Well, I did run 5 miles this morning." "It was a long work week, can't we do it later?" "Well, we could put it on the credit card, after all, we've done well this past year with our budget." How we go about life trying to make sense of something that might not be our most logical choice, is amazing to watch. Go ahead, look for it in your self. Look for the small ways you spend your energies in convincing you, most of all, that a decision made was the right one. Now, we all use a weighing of pros and cons to make a decision. Like on Black Friday weekend when you see that gift for that special someone and it's $200 off and you justify the purchase now, on credit, to take advantage of the deals. Nobody could really tell ...

This is my list that I cam up with in 5 minutes this morning: Trusting. Balanced. Shopping lists. Honest feedback. Cute clothes for our daughter (stylish). Listens to me talk about the same stuff. A desire outside of herself to see people grow. Willing to listen to others. Balance with food I had never known before. Assertive. Spiritual. Indulges, just enough, of my childlike wonder. Appreciative Co-parents with respect to my wishes. Discusses differences. Funny (Not as much as me, but still) Appreciates creativity. Passionate. Hard-working. Shows me how to live in the middle (I tend to go all or nothing) Chosen from God (For I would not have known the qualities of a parent if it were up to me) Makes me better Makes me want to be better Goes along with my impulsive ideas just enough to see me fizzle out because she knows me. Resilient. Authentic. Shows emotion (even in her denial of her initial emotion) Comforts me, makes me feel small (physically) Sexy (...